Homeward Bound

Finally time to head home. The day started with Ruth coming into the room a little before 7:30am, so much for sleeping in till 8am. She came in wide eyed and bushy tail and was ready to eat at 8am. After getting all the paperwork taken care of, doctors coming by, and packing up we were ready to go by 11:30am. Hey here is a funny for you. Watch two new parents try and put their newborn into a go home outfit as well as in a car seat for the first time. I think I broke a sweat trying to get her into the car seat. My thought is if I can get her in the seat quickly then she won't cry. I will give Ruth credit she sat still and never made a sound as we were trying to get her taken care of. We were able to finally get her in the seat and below is the proof!

Let's go home dad!

Now I have to say Ruth has been great in the hospital and really has been quite easy on us. I think Ruth knows we have no idea what we are doing. Well, then we go home and things changed...

It all started with a spit-up that lead to a quick clean up that lead to a scream fest that neither of us had heard of. I can say this much, neither Joanna nor I panicked and has she kept on screaming we went through our checklist that they gave us.

1. Is she hungry (nope, just fed her)
2. Is she dirty or wet (nope, just changed her)
3. Gassy (Well how in the heck do you check that!!!)

Ok so we figured it was number 3 because that made the most sense. I was able to get her to calm down for about 30 min and then she fell asleep so into the bed she goes. Well 20 min later she is screaming again, COME ON!!!

Well this time grandma took her but that did not work, so it was mama time and you know what... That worked! Joanna took her and walked down the hall and sang Jesus Loves Me, and to sleep she went. As I speak now she is still asleep and will wake up in about an hour to eat. It has been a lot of fun and I cannot see how a person could do this by herself. Anyway below are some photos of the day!

Busy Saturday

The weekends are always a lot of fun, especially Saturdays. Ours started this morning with Ruth getting her check-up for the morning and then she came into the room at 8:30am. She was wide awake and ready to eat. Joanna was feeling better today as well and she is moving around pretty good, considering. We also had several friends and family come by, and that really lifted Joanna's spirits. All in all a really good day. As far as tonight goes this will be our last night in the hospital, and that means the last night we get actual sleep!

Ruth has been a trooper and has really done a great job eating. She is a strong little girl and can kick and squirm with the best of them. Everyone loves to come and see her and it's funny to see how she makes everyone smile. Below are some of the photos of the day.

Kim Shirley from our small group at church

Ruth and Joanna got flowers

Grandpaw

 

Lunch time!

Daddy's Girl

We would also like to thank Justin and Allison Wilkerson, also in our small group, for bringing us dinner tonight and just hanging out! Oh that reminds me, some of you have asked about cooking for us and we are all for it! Below is a link for you to click on and let us know when you are coming.

http://mealbaby.com/viewregistry/470475

Good night!

The Day After

Wow what a difference a day makes. A little sleep and no pain goes a long way. Joanna is doing great, sore of course from the c-section but is getting better and better each day.

The morning was a little rough but after lunch things have really looked up. We have had some family and friends come by and it has been nice to visit with them all. Of course Ruth was the star of the show! It is now 9pm and we are both pretty tired. Ruth is down for a nap but before she did fall asleep she showed us how LOUD she can be. Of course she does not act like this when company is here but for Joanna and I she decided to show off! I now have two women that pull at my heart strings when they are hurting, the problem with Ruth is, she can't tell me. No worries as the nurses here said it really is only one of three things, hungry, diaper change, or needs to be burped. Once you check all of those she should be good. So I put her in Joanna's arms and grab a bottle and feed her, and you know she stopped crying! Guess she needed some mama time. Well tomorrow is Saturday and we have more friends coming by and we look forward to that. Now its off to bed but before we go here are some pictures from the day.

Ruth Lily Hopkins, May 5th 2011

Let me first say it has been a day. I can truly appreciate what it entails to having a baby. So recapping the day, here we go.

Joanna was awake at 10:30pm on May 4th with light contractions. These did not go away and at 1:30am, May 5th I was made aware. We started counting the contractions and when they were 5 min apart for 45 min, we called the doctor. We were told to come in and we arrived and got checked in right around 3am. The contractions were off and on, but they were picking up with greater intensity therefore we knew we were staying and having a baby today.

Later that morning the epidural was given and how grateful I was to see that. This helped Joanna out with the pain, little did we know it was not all it was cracked up to be. Joanna had her water broken and things started happening, not fast but at least there was movement. Then came some serious pain. It was like a spot and it seemed to move from the left to the right all the way back to the middle. After hours of no relieve, and plenty of pain they decided to give another epidural. This seemed to work and for about 45 min it did, however that was when the cervix pain came on strong. Ruth was ready to go but the cervix was not and she was only at 8cm.

Let me say I have seen people in pain and I don't like it. I have witnessed small injures to larger ones, but nothing prepared me for what I had to watch my wife go through. Time felt like it was standing still and there was no relief in site. Finally after more attempts they finally calmed down, with the help of some drugs. At 6:45 the doctor came in for one final check, still no progress. So the decision was made for a section, and if Joanna could have ran into the operating room she would have. However we still had a problem with the epidural. If it did not work in the room was it going to work in surgery?

They ran some quick test and found out it would not so the decision was made for Joanna to be put under. Since this was the case I had to sit in the hall and wait, put did not have to wait long. They put Joanna under at about 7:15pm and Ruth was here at 7:22pm! So if you are counting the hours at home that would mean Joanna when through labor for almost 21 hours!!

However she is now resting and is not in any more pain. To say we are both exhausted would be an understatement. However our baby girl is here and we are soooooooo glad she is. Thank you all for your messages and as I promised below are a few pictures!!

Light at the end of the tunnel

Ok so after a second epidural it appears that the pain has finally stopped. THANK YOU GOD!!

We are now at 7cm, close to 8 but the biggest thing is that we are comfortable. Our doctor will not be here for the delivery but we are in good hands with doctor on call. Like they told us earlier today this is a long process but we are almost finished

Hanging in there

Well for the first time since around 8ish Joanna is finally able to sleep. She was given the epidural and that seemed to help with the pain for a while, then it got strange. Depending on what side Joanna was laying on the other side could feel the contractions. Of course these are what we call "chart toppers". I came up with that name because when you look at them on the screen they are at the top line.

They came back in and checked the epidural and then gave her a little extra boost. For the time being that worked and like I said Joanna is asleep. She is already exhausted and we have not even gotten close to pushing. She and I both agree that Ruth needs to come on out after about 20 min of pushing. Of course she has been difficult so far so I am not sure this will be any different.

Not sure when they will come and check her again but once we have any additional news I will update you all. Thanks for the e-mail and texts, sorry if we are not responding but know Joanna is getting them and appreciates you all!!

Funny what can happen in a few hours

Ok so here we are blogging from Woman's hospital. Yep you guessed it Ruth will be here today!! So I know you want the details so I will tell you my side of the story.

At about 1:20am I heard Joanna call for me but of course I was so out of it I had no idea where she was. She was in the bathroom and asked for her phone, water, and a bath cloth. So I "quickly" stumbled into the bathroom to see what the heck was going on. Joanna then informed me that she was having contractions and had been having them since about 10:45pm. So of course I asked the obvious question "why did you not wake me?" Her response "I have been calling for you for a good 30 min, plus I was banging on the wall, as well as clapped my hands!!"  Oh.... Well the dog never moved either so give me a break here.

Then I started counting the contractions with her and after an hour of steady contractions about 5 min apart, we called the doctor. We were then told to come on up and so at 3am we were here. Once in the bed they started monitoring the contractions. Of course they slowed down, but when they came they were longer and stronger.

At 6am the doctor was called and it was decided that Joanna would be having the baby today. She did give us the option to go home, but we both knew we would be back here this afternoon. We were told this will be a long process and to try and rest. Ok really??? If the contractions woke Joanna up, how the heck is she going to sleep? I mean I can... but let's not go there.

Stay tuned as I am sure we will keep updating as we can. And yes once she is here we will upload some photos. I will let you all know that Joanna and baby are doing well, as well as can be!

39 Week Doctor Apt. - COME OUT!!!

Well I am 39 weeks and 3 day pregnant and VERY ready for this baby girl to get here!!! Unfortunately the doc says that's probably a no go judging by the signs of my body. I am still stuck at 50% effaced and 1 cm dilated!! UGH!!! Stubborn little girl!! I have to say I was and still am a little disappointed to hear that news. I was for sure hoping to have progressed a little bit further along, especially with all the contractions and movement this week. I just feel like I have a long week ahead of me. She is not showing any signs of slowing down or giving me a break - except to maybe break a rib!! I sent last night from 11 to 12 walking the living room and hallway because she was so active I could not physically lay down and sleep. The only way it was bearable was to be up and moving - which makes for a really long night. It also doesn't help when you can hear your husband snoring away in the bed throughout the whole house. I keep telling myself this is good practice but I mean come on at least she will be here in my arms and I'll have something sweet to look at- right now all I can do is yell at my belly!! UGH oh well I guess I need to quit venting and just be happy that she is healthy and coming out next Wednesday!!! I just need some prayers for my sanity and a safe delivery next week! I am excited about meeting our newest addition I just wish she would make an early arrival!! :)

Walking and Exercise

Well no baby as of this exact moment so everyone just settle down.

It has come a routine around here to go for an afternoon walk once I get home from work. Of course this is a great form of exercise but they say this is also supposed to help the baby come quicker. Well there are other things as well like eating spicy foods, and well this other thing that I won't mention, but I am starting to think they are old wives tales. Ok so since we have been going on these walks I think the dog enjoys them more than anyone else. Well today he got an extra treat not only did we go for a walk but we then came back and played "attack of the killer bubbles!!" It's a great game, we blow bubbles and Blitz tries to eat them as fast as he can, see the photo evidence below.